Comedy Couples: Craig and Carla Cackowski

The idea behind our Comedy Couples series, is to get to know other comedians who work, perform and live this crazy entertainment lifestyle just like we live. Often we know these comedians well. Sometimes though, we’re getting to learn about them right along with you. Last year, we went to the Dallas Comedy Festival where we met Craig Cackowski. Of course we knew who he was. Craig is a legend of sorts at iO Chicago and as a touring member and Mainstage writer/performer for five years with The Second City. He has since gone on to appear in shows such as Curb Your Enthusiasm, Arrested Development, Veep, The Mindy Project, Community, Workaholics and many more. His reputation proved itself more than worthy as his improv skills are inspiring to watch, which we learned while watching his improv show Dasariski perform. Dasariski can be seen in LA and in festivals around the country.

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Unfortunately, we did not get to meet Carla Cackowski (then Snowden), although we were supposed to. She was originally slated to be in the same Second City cruise ship group as we were, but due to schedule conflicts she wasn’t able to join our cast. Carla is a comedy force within her own right having done voice over work on Pretty Little Liars, iCarly, and Cougar Town. She is a staple in the sketch comedy world in LA, performing with the UCB Theater, improvising at iO West and in festivals around the country, as well as with The Second City on the cruise ships… just not the one with us. Plus, she is excited to be a part of a new theater company in LA called The Solo Collective along with some other very talented people.

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Not only are their names kind of hard to say together, they’re obviously a very talented couple who just happen to also be newlyweds.


What’s the first moment that made you say, “Oh my God this person gets me?”

Craig: Probably when she came to my shows and laughed at everything I said. Wait…maybe she was just doing that to make out with me.

Carla: I’m not sure if I remember the first time, but the most recent time was yesterday when I started singing a song I made up for our cat Bronco and Craig interrupted me and finished the verse.

Do you make each other laugh all the time at home?

Craig: Oh, yeah. Usually in the voices she adopts to talk to our animals.

Carla: Mostly. Except for when Craig is crying while watching “The Voice”. Then it’s very one sided and he’s only making me laugh.

Are you funnier on stage on at home? What would the other person say?

Craig: I’m definitely funnier on stage, I think of myself as relatively serious in life when I’m not on stage. Carla is hilarious in all situations, but is especially funny at home. I think Carla would agree on both counts.

Carla: I’m probably funnier at home. Or in the car. I’m really funny on road trips. Craig would probably agree.

Does the comedy come easier because you’re in a relationship?

Craig: There’s definitely no guesswork when we’re on stage together in having to figure out what the other person is going for. In fact, my improv usually reflects whatever was going on in my life that week/stuff we were already talking about, much to Carla’s consternation.

Carla: We don’t really perform together very often. Watching Craig improvise is one of the my favorite things in the world, though. I always wonder if people realize how much he uses from his real life. A couple years into dating, I was complaining how much weight I was gaining because all we ever did was go out to eat. The next night he was playing a woman onstage and said the exact thing verbatim. So now you all know the secret to Craig’s success. ME! (Hoping sarcasm reads properly in this.)

How do you balance your “comedy life” with your “regular married life”?

Craig: We’re actually rarely at the theater on the same nights, and we have separate comedy friends and separate comedy lives. I also think it’s important to take breaks from comedy and get out of LA every now and then!

Carla: This is something we’re working on. Right, honey? Oh wait. He’s not here. He’s at an improv festival.

Describe the pros and cons of being married/in a relationship to a comedy partner.

Craig: We can always test bits and ideas out on each other at home, practice auditions, etc. I totally trust her opinion on what is funny and whether I’m funny.

Carla: The only con is when I have a show or am teaching an improv class at the same time he has a show. Cause then I miss out on watching him perform. And that’s a bummer. We lead pretty separate comedy lives in the sense that we don’t do any shows together, but that feels like a pro most of the time. It’s nice to be able to go off and do our own thing and then come back together and talk about our experiences.

Anything else you’d like to add that you think would be fun?

Craig: Carla sings the same songs over and over to our animal, including such hits as “I scratch-a your belly, and I scratch-a your face, and I scratch-a, scratch-a, scratch-a all over the place”. This never fails to crack me up, and me making fun of her for doing it never fails to crack her up.

Carla: Craig and I lived a few blocks apart in Chicago in 2000. I saw Craig do a Second City show when I was 19. Craig was my teacher in LA a few years before we started dating in 2006. It’s weird to think that he was somewhere in my life for so long before we connected. Pretty romantic, eh?


Check out Dasariski or The Solo Collective the next time you’re in LA, or keep an eye out on your TV. You never know when either one of these faces might pop up on your screen.


Side Note: After they both sent me their responses, Carla said, “AHHH – just reading his! He told you about the animal songs too! This is like a group mind exercise all up in your facebook messages.” Adorable! Hang on to her Craig. She’s a keeper!


Two Idiots Make Matzo Ball Soup

Passover begins tonight at sundown. Since we can’t be home to celebrate with family, we decided to make our own Matzo Ball Soup. This is a first for both of us. Follow along and you, too, can eat like the chosen people. Turns out, it’s pretty easy!

Comedy Couples: Ever and Caitlin

So far, most of the comedy couples we’ve talked to have been improvisers. Over the last year, we’ve both been focusing more on standup comedy. While it’s certainly a different beast, we’re all  just trying to do what we love, make people laugh. The standup world can be very cliquey and at times intimidating, but two lovely women I met early on were definitely the exception to this. Turns out they also happen to be a couple. Meet Ever Mainard and Caitlin Bergh. Both ladies can be seen all over town making people laugh with their standup, but also improv, writing and storytelling.

Ever is a cast member of the highly respected Chicago Underground Comedy and produces the critically acclaimed standup showcase The Shit Show She has appeared in the Just For Laugh Festival, worked with Maria Bamford and other big names of comedy and Chicago Magazine called her one of the Top Seven Acts to Watch in 2012. Gaper’s Block said she was one of The Most Influential Women in Chicago. Check out Ever’s website HERE. 


Caitlin Bergh is a force in her own right. She is a cast member at The Lincoln Lodge and her one woman show CHUNKS received fantastic reviews. She also produces and hosts The Funny Story Show at LooseLeaf Lounge and co-produces and hosts Performance Anxiety Chicago at The Pleasure Chest. While she’s at it, she’s also a writer for In Our Words and Gapers Block.  More at


Do you make each other laugh at home?

Ever: Yes, mostly by accident. I think that we are both just silly people and I think that its great that our silliness still makes us laugh,

Caitlin: Yes, Ever does voices and impressions 24/7. I don’t know what it is actually like to date Ever Mainard. I am dating Dick Ditka, Susie Butermilk, etc. It’s more fun than monogamy

How do you balance comedy life versus regular life? 

Ever: Whats regular life? Haha, all we know is comedy life! We are very supportive of each other but we do find times for date night. We recently went to a movie at the Davis and just giggled the whole time and talked about which one of our cats would play who in Les Mis.

Caitlin: They are one and the same. Sometimes it can be overwhelming to go to your own show, then your girlfriend’s show, then your girlfriend’s other show, then your show again….so it can be harder to support your Sig. O. when they are in the same field and not burn out. Sometimes we just have to take a break from going to each other’s shows. But I’m pretty sure we’ve never had a ‘relationship life’ that wasn’t also a comedy one, you know? We met at a show, we fell for each other at an open mic, we used to kiss behind the curtain at a mic when we were first dating. It’s all intertwined.

Does the comedy come easier because you’re in a relationship?
Caitlin: No….but at least there’s someone to cry on
Describe the pros and cons of being in a relationship to a comedy partner.
Ever: Pros- you get the life and the culture, you can lean on each other, you can help each other and challenge each other.
Cons- no sleep and passing schedule.
Caitlin: Pros: she can tell me to stop freaking out if someone said “good job” after my set instead of “GREAT JOB.” Ever has a more logical brain than me. And that is the biggest pro.
The biggest con… that we don’t have a car, we are always running, we are always tired and hungry. I wish she had a car and kept healthy dinners in the pockets inside her coat. Like my kangaroo mom.
Anything else you’d like to add that you think would be fun?

Caitlin: So, we have these cats, and they are legitimately not smart. They have tiny, eensy brains. They cannot even figure out basic cat information. One of them cannot back up. It has been a blessing because we have had so much fun making fun of them. I’m so glad we adopted them just to torment them emotionally forever. But for real, we spend a lot of time doing cat voices. Today Ever was singing in one cat’s voice on the sidewalk when we realized there were people following right behind us. It was kind of embarrassing, but, if they met these dumb cats they would get it.

Caitlin and Ever

Looking for a fun night out? Check out their upcoming shows!

The Shit Show

The Shit Show is a FREE comedy showcase is held the LAST Friday of every month at 8pm at The Shambles (2050 W. Division Street, Chicago).
Local comics Rasa Gierstikas and Ever Mainard host a comedy variety show the last Friday of every month that includes emerging local comics to seasoned performers who have appeared on David Letterman, B.E.T., etc.

Prizes are given to audience members, as well as, performers with the night’s “Best Joke!” by The Shit Show’s very own Hotdog Man (Keith Paesel) -as determined by the audience.

It is officially sponsored by Fireball Whisky and Mingle Around. The show has been featured in The Onion’s A/V Club, Metromix’s “Top Theater Picks”, The Redeye’s “Shows You Must See”, Timeout Chicago and The Reader. For more information visit:

What people are saying about The Shit Show:
Chicago Now – “enamoring with our unique personality of the show.
Red Eye – a “comedy extravaganza”
The Onion – “A lot like a phoenix, except with hip, genre crossing comedy instead of a mythical fire bird”.
The Chicago Reader-”A sidesplitting.. big hearted, monthly comedy bonanza!

Check out a fun promotional video by Eliaz Rodriguez:

Lincoln Lodge and Funny Story Show

Lincoln Lodge ( and The Funny Story Show (

Ada Grey’s (age 8) advice on marriage

A while back we asked our good friend and theater critic extraordinaire Ada Grey (Ada Grey Reviews for You) for her advice on marriage. Ada is a super smart 8 year old (NOTE: she was 7 when she told us all this below). Pay attention, she’s not wrong here.

A good marriage is where you are not too quick about it. You should at least have 20 dates before you can think about marrying that person. Because you don’t want it to be like Cinderella’s. That marriage is stupid. Because you shouldn’t get married like 2 seconds after you’ve met someone. And she doesn’t even speak to him. It is just idiocy.

They should go out to Uncommon Ground or something before they actually go out and get married.

I am making this list of all these things that help you have a good marriage. Which I think is awesome.

1. Talk about what they think about marriage. Engage in conversations about things that they like and what they dislike. For example, like somebody could not like dogs and the other person could like dogs, and they would have to converse over it.

2. They should be able to be comfortable together. When they are sitting next to each other or talking together they shouldn’t be shy and they shouldn’t be thinking am I good enough for him or her?

3. When I go to sleep at night I know my parents are going to have grown-up time. And that involves watching grown-up television and talking about things I would think are boring. And kissing. And they would also drink beer and wine and stuff—which I don’t think is bad for their relationship at all.

4. They should not fight like every single night. They should fight like every 5 or 6 weeks or so. Then that helps them understand what the other person needs.

5. You should both live in the exact same house or else you can’t have a good relationship. Like if someone lives in St. Louis and somebody else lives in California, that is not a very good marriage at all. Period.

The best things about being married are that you have someone to discuss their fears and anxieties, and that you can work together and read books together and have the exact same likings and that you want to travel to the same places. The most important thing is that you love each other.

Right?! Smart kid with a great head on her shoulders. Something that frankly many adults don’t have, but her parents have done a great job of instilling in her.

Plus, she’s also a great actress. Here’s a really fun video of when Monique and Ada reenacted “A Few Good Men” for the show “Impress These Apes”. She gives Jack Nicholson a run for his money! Make sure to also check out her blog, especially if you’re a fan of theater, kids or comedy.

Comedy Couples: Clay and Anissa

Meet more of our comedian friends!

Last time you met our hilarious, nerdy friends (and new parents), Derek and Natalie. This time we’re traveling from Chicago back to our home town of Kansas City to meet Clay and Anissa Morgan.

Clay and Anissa

Corey has known Clay and Anissa for almost 20 years, before any of us were married to each other, from his days back at the KC ComedySportz. Monique met them about 10 years ago when she joined the theater, which by then was called ComedyCity.

In September of 2011, Clay and Anissa bought the theater and have been breathing new life into it, continuing it’s tradition as a longtime mainstay of the Kansas City comedy scene while striving to create, innovate and cultivate a new generation of fans and participants of improv, sketch, and alternative comedy. They both still perform at ComedyCity, as well as with the groups Loaded Dice and Pretty.Funny.

– Do you make each other laugh all the time at home?

We laugh a lot! Mostly at our kids. Clay tells stupid jokes that are much funnier coming from a 7 and 9 year old.

– Does the comedy come easier because you’re married?

We probably have more experiences to draw from because we are married. Sometimes it’s easier to write sketches because you have someone to bounce ideas off of.

– How do you balance your “comedy life” with your “regular married life”?

This one is tough. Especially since Clay runs ComedyCity. We never get to have a weekend date. We sometimes grab dinner on a Tuesday when the girls are at a church class. But we always try to reserve Sundays for family time. We focus on just being goofy us.

– Describe the pros and cons of being married to a comedy partner.

We laugh a lot.
We have smart, witty, friends who keep us young.
Collaborating on comedic ideas and projects.
We are never bored.

Sometimes we wish we had a “normal” life, but then we would probably be bored.
Sometimes it’s a blow to the ego if your partner is funnier than you are or gets more attention after a show.

– Anything else you’d like to add that you think would be fun?

Two comedians definitely make funny kids. Our youngest daughter’s kindergarten teacher told us that Kenna had the best comedic timing of any kindergartner she has ever had. Screw reading and math! Our kids are funny!!!

Can I add that having a spouse that is in comedy makes for a rough crowd at home… stuff that would kill in front of the public doesn’t fly at all at home.

Live in the KC area? Here are some cool things coming up at Comedy City.

Comedy City

February 2nd – The College Improv Tournament Heartland Regional. Fun fact: They are all growing out their facial hair (I assume the ladies too?) to welcome the Beard and Mustache Club of Kansas City, who are having a meeting and enjoying the 7:30pm show with them.

Feb. 9th – Improv Thunderdome – Round 2

February 23rd – It’s their birthday! Celebrating 26 years.

Check out their website for more details!